its getting harder and harder to go a day without a binder (even if it is once in a while..and its a lazy day)
i normally shower and get dressed just about every day, and just like everyone else occasionally i have a lazy day where i dont get dressed and i lay around doing just about nothing. i dont bind those days.
i put my binder on when i get ready for the day. and its getting more difficult not to get ready and not bind. because i hate not binding. but i need to take a break from it every now and then. especially because its only 2-3 times a month where i dont bind. its not healthy.
and when i do bind its for about 16 hours at a time. almost every day.
i love my piercings. but i feel as though they make me look feminine (as in bring out femine features). im sure they’ll have a masculine look on me when im on T. and as of right now me having a baby face doesnt help…
would i date a trans man? yeah, i would.
i like men. i like feeling of security with a man rather then with a women. and i know i can get that from a trans man. because they/we are men. im attracted to masculinity, not male parts.
theres a reason i dont participate in binder give aways
its not because its used or it might be stretched out. its because theres some one out there who really seriously cant afford one. and im not going to take that chance away from them by putting myself in there and adding more people giving them less of a chance. i have my binder. i have a few binders. i dont need a new one just because its free.
so please people. if you see a give away and you own a binder thats usable. give the people who cant get one a chance to win it. they probably need it more then you do at that moment in time.